Good evening and thank you for reading my profile.

I have only just joined and therefore am considering exactly how best to complete this section of my profile.

Hello, and thank you for taking the trouble to read my profile. PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO READ, VERY CAREFULLY, AND THEN ASK YOURSELF, AM I READY FOR THE CHALLENGE???

I am a happy soul with a very wicked sense or humour. I work part-time as a lecturer and historian. I was a lawyer for many years. I am looking for a lady, I am not interested if she is tall or short, thin or fat, these are merely the shell of a person but you must have an excellent sense of humour and a personality to match. Her age will be probably not be younger than about 50 ish with NO upper age limit, as I have said it's all about personality, truly!

A perfect evening I would envisage would be with a Lady, in front of an open fire, candles lit, some very slow, 'mood type' music playing in the background and perhaps sharing a bottle of wine...how does that sound, will you, kindly join me, please???

You should be vivacious, very open minded and not too judgmental. I enjoy the Arts generally, reading, photography,art, drawing perhaps? architecture, quizzes, going to museums and galleries and have a very 'catholic' taste in all sorts of music but not heavy metal, rock and head banging stuff. If you have your own home and are settled but not got that special person in your life, who you can share a beautiful sunset with or a wonderful piece of music, or just some very special moment, thats why we are here, surely??? If you can drive, so much the better but certainly NOT essential.

I am looking for a lady who would enjoy the simple things in life and to share, those things, with somebody who she thinks is very special in her life, too. You should be reasonably well educated and be able to hold a conversation and be interested in the world around you. You can see that I am certainly NOT looking, as many other men are, looking for some young dolly bird or arm candy to show off!

In fact weight, height and looks are of secondary importance to me. I am a genuine chap who has brought up, two daughters, both now married and I have grandchildren who are wonderful characters.

Politness and good manners are very important to me but I hope that this does not indicate to you that I am some stuffy ole so and so, who is boring, for life with me will cetainly not be boring that I promise.... and do expect to have your boundaries, in many different aspects pushed to the limit!!!!!

I think that a woman who has confidence in her personality and is not ashamed of her body shape, whatever it is is a real ''turn on ''for me, not a threat as it would be to a lot of guys.


GOVERNMENT HEALTH WARNING!!!I must warn you though, you will be crazy to want to get mixed up with such a mad guy, but if you want to laugh and I hope have some happiness into your life, somebody to share, window shopping, even happy to shop around the supermarkets and enjoy wonderful sunsets, yep this guy will do both as he is certainly not selfish and is very much a ''giver'' in the important areas of life!

It is all about sharing and doing things together, don't you agree?,

Somebody to ''grow old very disgracefully with'', in every respect, would be an ideal lady, especially if she is full of mischief and surprises.

DARE YOU CONTACT ME? Certainly not for the timid or the faint hearted. We might just grow old together but very outrageously eh?

SOMEBODY WHO KNOWS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MAKING LOVE AND JUST HAVING SEX! Nothing wrong with sex occasionally though.....but knowing the difference.....Yes, I am happy to mention that 'three lettered word', sex, so many shy away and run from it or even the mention of it!!! I also wish to find that very special lady to push back the boundaries of such experiences so she will naturally have to be exceptionally broad- minded and wish to experiment with me, I'll leave the rest to your imagination.....

Do you know anything about Tantra???

I shall await to hear from you, perhaps?

Kindest regards,

Jay X

PS There in no photo a this stage, only because, in my work, now and previously, I may be easily recongnised...no, I have nothing to hide and please do not draw adverse inferences from this as I shall be perfectly happy to forward a picture to your e mail account, when we get to know one another and indeed my home landline 'phone number so you can see that I am genuine. I don't use a mobile phone!!! If you are an understanding person you will no doubt appreciate my need for confidentiality, at this stage, at least. Thank you for your confidence.

PPS Never let it be said that this guy is unable to change his mind and see things from a different angle...that is why I have decided to put a picture on my profile, now!!! Regards, J x